Once it meant being betrothed (probably still does). That second stage of things before they got hairy and led to marriage. Almost a sussing out of the players on a one-to-one basis before the actual one-to-one reality took place. Some people still go through it, others just move in.
And now engagement marketing is a thing. It comes with its accruements - SEO, PPC and conversion rates.
And cross-channel tunnelling to see what prize the mole is looking for. And the reports - the customer as an individual, their jobs, hobbies, and actions, where they are online and what they are doing.
Engagement marketing, then, is the unobtrusive intrusion into customer lives to gather data for one end - the ideal outcome. And it is done in a way the customer, while having an inkling that it is happening, is largely unaware it is happening as it is done in bits and pieces over a period of time and with such consideration and ingenuity that you are almost grateful it happens.
Cookies, chips, bots, bats of out hell and a whole lot of other things are used in predicting behaviour, customer lifecycles, to send you personalised emails, to tease you with offers, and even censor you on forums, all by collecting hard data on you and your actions online.
But it is largely a hands-off approach. And while it tells you’re a lot of things about the customer, you are not making any friends.
If this be engagement, it is similar to hiring a private detective to check on the background of your prospective spouse, and then working towards a pre-nup before booking the celebrant. Almost a cold-blooded approach to what should be a situation seething with emotions and fraught with tensions.
And then when you add in the Internet of Things (IoT) into the mix, we know we are going to be very well connected (or contacted). Yet the disconnect will always remain for there really is no one-to-one engagement, just a semblance of it, at a three degrees of separation level.
With social media, the quest too is to engage too. Here it is you can see the seething emotions, the tensions, and the trolling. If you can reach to that level, and if you willing to partake of it.
Local governments, and governments, are the biggest culprits when it comes to not engaging online. The very idea of uncontrolled feedback, chatting with angry and abusive citizens, and the unsayable sallies on social media platforms like Facebook and Twitter scare the bejesus out of us.
We are just not ready for it - most of us anyway. So, we lean back on those tried and tested ways of engaging with citizens: the 'public' meetings where everything is so formalised that asking a question requires a little bit of ego, or anger; the submission process which asks you to fill in a form with details, details, details so no-one really wants to unless they have to; and the drop-in session at your local - where appeasement is the name of the game rather than true collecting of feedback.
And increasingly there are the so called eDemocracy platforms that ask you to register and make yourself known (in case we have some beef with you later) and then allow to have a say in the running of your government.
These process mostly asks you stop opining and start debating. It is a project for most of us, this putting together of arguments to put forth to a panel for discussion and further debate. Little wonder then that few actually submit using such processes and that local government voting figures are slinking off to reside in the percentage shadowlands.
While we live in a in a time when I can buy a product from overseas with just three clicks and have it delivered to my doorstep; the more important job of having a say in the running of my city, my country requires a little too much of effort for me to be interested in taking part.
But if I were to comment on a Facebook post, or tweet my opinion, and that comment is actually noted and acted upon, I would think my opinion is held in some regard. And I would be willing to comment some more - after all there are things out there I want to opine about.
And in the age of the Internet of Things, wouldn't I want that when the lightbulb moment happens, it is directly conveyed somehow to those wanting most to know of it, not just the manufacturer of the fridge I am staring into, or to their associates only.
Why, I’d want my council to know what I am thinking when I am wrestling that last bit of garbage into the wheelie bin at midnight just before going to bed. An input device on the lid of the wheelie bin would feedback my feelings/predicament/opinion/rambling instantly to a database, right?
Intrusive? Yes, but things already are intrusive now. And it will only get worse when IoT spreads further into our lives.
I also am thinking of a time when, like on those singing competition shows where voting takes place within a short timeframe, that when a council needs to decide on something, a quick, hour-long digital ‘referendum’ would help them make the decision. That would be eDemocracy at its best.
But before that, we need to tap into and use to the fullest those tools that are available to us here and now. That means going out on those platforms where our residents/citizen have a presence and to become a presence on it ourselves.
And yes, it will be a little like those town hall meetings of yore when everyone wanted to say their piece and had to shout to be heard. And they kept shouting until they were heard. That is what is happening on social media now. Engaging at that level, in the madcap, town hall type of engagement, will be fun, and productive, and a true indication of what people are thinking. Really thinking – not robotically ticking set piece questions on a form that only ‘validated’ previously established decisions that are sent out for endorsement by the public.
And governments, local and otherwise, need to be engaging on these platforms at that mayhamic level. They need to put aside their fear of losing control, and loosen control on their communications (which is always supposed to two-way, anyway) so they actually can make truly democratic decisions.
Next – Disengagement
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